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Saturday, January 3, 2009

Sea shells by the sea shore ...

Two years ago we decided the whole family should take a vacation in celebration of Marvin and my 50th wedding anniversary. So the 12 of us traveled by plane to Florida on Dec. 26, 2008, and for four nights and days vegetated on the beach and by the pools of the beautiful South Sea Island Resort which encompasses most of Captiva Island near Fort Myers. Great food was a bonus and great company with one another a blessing.

Our condos faced the Gulf of Mexico and the well-cared-for beaches were a constant source of joy. Yeah, I know there's something elemental about the ocean, frightening for its immensity and amoral power, yet awesome in its color and the amazing gifts it bestows on those who seek it. Having fished the Bering Sea, I am well aware of the fear factor and seasickness! Yet I yearned to feel the sand and salt water and to find the sea shells raved about on the resort website. So every morning we walked the shoreline, trying to hit low tide so we could attempt to pick the best from behind a beach shelf, which is covered with water during the day. Everyone found shells, of course, with concentration and a bit of reaching! I even fell into the water fully clothed because I was determined to get a conch shell! Did I quit? Nope! Those waves that kept giving and taking back couldn't keep me down! 

The shells and striving for them could be considered a metaphor for life. When one reaches for a goal, sometimes one acquires it. Sometimes one may become so immersed in the striving that one is soaked in the work and oblivious to the rest of life. And sometimes the goal is taken back by the waves of perdition. Perhaps then our goal should be continuing to strive. To reach yet again for the beautiful shell was our purpose on the beach. To reach for our life's goals again and again is our purpose here on earth. We just need to not let the waves take our attention away from those we love, or discourage us from striving. 

During this New Year, I plan to remember the sea shells by the sea shore ... and my family's striving!

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